When I launched this blog, I assumed maybe five people would read it: me, my husband, and whichever people stumbled upon it by accident. But then my family started sending me their reactions, and suddenly I felt like I was hosting a very wholesome, very emotional focus group.
My sister Jasmine came in hot with a review that honestly belongs on the back of a book jacket:
I am so unbelievably proud of my sister and the space she’s created with her writing. Her blog isn’t just something you read, it’s something you feel. One post will have you smiling like an idiot, the next might hit you right in the chest, and somehow she makes both feel safe and honest.
She has this way of putting everyday thoughts into words that make you stop and think, “Wait… that’s exactly how I feel.” It’s relatable without trying too hard, emotional without being dramatic, and funny in that effortless, clever way that makes you exhale through your nose and reread the line again because it’s just that good.
Her writing makes me feel connected to her in a deeper way. It reminds me how thoughtful she is, how observant, and how brave it is to share pieces of yourself with the world. Watching her build something that feels so her makes me proud in that quiet but overwhelming way like, “That’s my sister” kind of proud.
And if you haven’t read her blog yet… you’re missing out. Just be prepared to feel something.
Then there’s my mom, who is still shocked I’m sharing anything personal with the internet at all:
I am in awe of my daughter for having the courage to start a blog about her life that she is sharing with anyone who wants to read it! She doesn’t really share her much about her life to her family let alone strangers too!
The topics that she has chosen to write about so far, are topics and people that she cares a great deal about! Each blog I read makes me look at things from her perspective, and know how she really feels about each thing!
She cares deeply about the people she loves and lets into her circle!
For her to allow anyone to know how she really feels about things, takes a mountain of courage I knew she had but didn’t think she would ever display!
She is fierce, loyal and blunt (almost to a fault)!
I believe this blog lets her express to everyone her true self without actually have to say things out loud!
It is very well written and feels real! It made me happy, laugh, cry, wonder, and be excited to read the next one.
And then there’s my husband James:
When I first read Kelsey’s writing in her blog, I thought I was reading an excerpt from a professional publication. I had no idea she was such a talented writer. Im thrilled that she decided to start blogging. Writing can be very cathartic for some, and I really think this will be good for her. I love reading her posts and am excited to see how she grows as a writer. Love you, Kelso ![]()
So yes, my family has thoughts. Emotional ones. Proud ones. And reading them made me realize something: writing might be the first time I’ve let the people closest to me see the inside of my head without me having to actually speak words out loud. Honestly? It feels kind of nice.